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Don’t allow their poison to become your poison

Don’t allow their poison to become your poison

I made a choice not all that long ago that has changed my life profoundly: I no longer allow other people’s poison to become my poison.

Recently in my Divamind high-end program, we’ve been looking into issues of betrayal. So many of us have been betrayed: by partners, family, other women, coaching clients etc. When we are empaths, we tend to take onboard others’ issues. When someone does something bad or harmful, we see the behavior as our fault in some way—and whether it be emotional, physical or sexual abuse, the effect remains the same. It sends us into believing that we must have done something wrong to deserve the betrayal. This way of processing the behavior must be dissolved!




Diva, it’s time to delve lusciously inwards and ask yourself: am I crucifying myself? Make a sacred vow right now to change this pattern of self-sabotage, to stand your ground, set boundaries and declare that it isn’t acceptable any longer! Then send yourself love and look deeply into where you may be poisoning your life, frequency and energy by absorbing someone else’s beliefs and making them your truth.

Ultimately, someone could call me a ‘moron’, and it’s my choice to determine whether I’m going to take it onboard or not.

This is where you rise, Diva. Trust and back yourself. Trust in your vision and where you’re going. Establish strong boundaries, Diva! Stand in your lush power and say:

‘This is not acceptable.
I’m not going to stand for it.
I do not need to justify myself.’

If someone’s behavior feels off, the likelihood is that it is off.

You need to communicate clearly with love what is right and not right for you. You must understand what is your responsibility and what is not, what is acceptable and what is not, and be able to articulate that and hold it vibrationally for yourself.




And then there is the topic of jealousy. It may come at you, Diva, especially when you shine so brightly. Recognise jealousy for what it is, ensure you have a protective space and dissolve it with your Diva light. Use it as a loving weapon to take up even more space and fill it with your glowing essence. If people feel threatened by you, that’s okay. Send them love, but don’t dampen or dim your light in order to fit in.

Leaders do not fit in. Leaders take up space and honor their desire for self-expression. You, Diva, are a leader! You’re not here to be a carbon copy version of anyone else. You don’t need to try to fit in because when you find your tribe, you don’t need to be anything but your true self.

Be mindful of where you may be making someone else’s judgment, pain or triggers your poison and deflect them. Remember: don’t take it on!

It’s time for women to rise into financial freedom while serving passionately with their intuition as their sword and their hearts as their lasso of truth. It’s my mission to see you rise, Diva, and catapult your vision into success. What are you waiting for? Let’s go, Diva! Speak to one of my Diva advisors to map out your high-end empire. Book in here 👉 ceodivaconsult.com.


Don't allow their poison to become your poison


Fixated by your divine success,

Ingrid Arna

Leading 7-Figure Diva Strategist


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Ingrid Arna

Ingrid Arna is the founder and CEO of The Ingrid Arna Company and the creator of the Gucci of online business programs, High End Empire. Ingrid Arna and her company are leading the charge in teaching conscious capitalism and building leaders who are devoted to global healing. The return is massive impact and million dollar brands that give back.

Since becoming a mother, the only resolutions Ingrid has stuck to are swapping G-strings for granny panties and quadrupling her fees. She’s never been happier.