Hey Divine Beauty,
I just made my daughter some lunch, and we’re chillin’ out!
I feel so compelled to speak, speak, speak, and share, share, share at the moment. I’m particularly feeling called right now to chat about generosity.
If you’re reading this, then I know you’re a heart-centered, empathetic, generous and divine woman.
You’re here to serve, you have a generous spirit, and you want to give, give, give from your heart. You want to prosper; you want people to do well; you want your clients to ascend, transform, heal their lives; and you want to share your work…right?
Yes, Diva, giving is beautiful and generosity is so important…
But generosity without boundaries and integrity is incredibly toxic.
The message I’m sharing in this video today is so important if you’re a generous soul who deeply cares for others.
I have many people in my life, including hundreds of students that I mentor. I also constantly have people coming to me and wanting to work with, and for, me. I have to set boundaries because my time is precious, and my work is precious.
If I don’t hold those boundaries, I grossly under-serve my clients, my family, and myself.
Quite simply put…no pay, no play!
I communicate this boundary with love and reference for myself because it’s up to me to be in integrity with myself.
Honoring yourself is non-negotiable if you want to sustain a seven-figure business; otherwise, you become depleted from over-giving and people do not honor and respect you or your time.
I have worked with some of the most brilliant and talented women in the world who give their essence, energy and brilliance away because they want to be generous. This is not the generosity of an ethical diva who is in integrity with herself, though, because she’s putting herself and her own well-being last. In fact, this is self-sacrifice and self-abuse.
You cannot take all of the responsibility for someone else’s transformation.
You are only responsible for your part of the exchange; ultimately, the choice is theirs to ascend.
As you honor yourself and value your work, you begin to attract people who will rise to take responsibility for themselves. When you’re no longer available to people-please and over-give to the point of complete self-destruction, people will stop taking advantage of you.
No one can hold these boundaries for you. When you create boundaries for yourself, you’re actually empowering others to do the same.
In my High-End Empire Divamind, we do 4 classes now a month, and it is my students’ responsibility to show up for those classes. I give double what I promise, but I still cannot be responsible for whether or not each of my clients takes my teaching and does the work to get results.
When I have boundaries with my students and clients, I honor myself, and you know what happens? Life gets richer and juicier.
We’re going through a massive ascension at the moment. Many people are talking about how heavy and uncomfortable it feels because we’re rebirthing and releasing all that stagnant energy that we can’t take with us to the top. My students are feeling it, and because they’re deeply supported in my Divamind, I know they’re going to come out the other side of this shift with completely different lives and businesses.
Part of holding our own boundaries is getting into a totally new vibration, surrounding ourselves with people who are doing the same, and bringing in the support we require, Diva, is it time for you to join us? Book a chat with one of my Diva Advisors, and let’s see if we’re a fit. Book in here → ceodivaconsult.com.
I’ve released so much conditioning around what it is to be a good, valuable woman and healed so many wounds around my relationship with my parents in order to hold this level of self-respect and maintain my boundaries. This is no joke.
Get the support you need to hold yourself in high-regard, value your work, and implement the practical strategy required for you to financially ascend in your business.
Love and so many divine riches,
Ingrid Arna is the founder and CEO of The Ingrid Arna Company and the creator of the Gucci of online business programs, High End Empire. Ingrid Arna and her company are leading the charge in teaching conscious capitalism and building leaders who are devoted to global healing. The return is massive impact and million dollar brands that give back.
Since becoming a mother, the only resolutions Ingrid has stuck to are swapping G-strings for granny panties and quadrupling her fees. She’s never been happier.